Worst Way to Deal with Addiction & Regrets - Ranu Agrawal
Regrets and addiction are intertwined in so many ways. We are sorry because we thought we could do better, and we have grown addicted because we believe this is who we are.
The truth is that we've been in this scenario for a very long time. It's not for a set period of time; it's only that one lingering feeling in our hearts that can only be healed by self-awareness.
Only by allowing ourselves to look beyond the boundaries can we achieve self-realization. When we allow ourselves to soar free in the sky, we are also allowing ourselves to be protected from obstacles. Self-realization includes gathering the confidence to overcome a circumstance, making attempts to keep ourselves happy, and doing things we've always wanted to accomplish.
Where will this courage come from?
This power is only etched when our regrets and addictions have reached a point where we can only wish that this isn't how things are supposed to be.
The regrets we are experiencing are only a part of life, not the entire existence. Addiction appears to be a complete waste of resources, both physically and intellectually, as well as monetarily, economically, and emotionally.
"Addicts, whether addicted or clean, are not permitted to break the law of addiction. Regret and guilt are the only ways to break the law. Humans were designed with the ability to make mistakes, but with that came a constraint. For a brief moment, breaking this barrier means being rejected by society, friends, family, and even ourselves."
We, as humans, are so self-centred and pitiful that we can live with the guilt of despising ourselves, but a specific body should not despise us. It's becoming like looking for good company ideas when they don't want to be hated.
Although there are no regulations and rules in the book of the constitution, the law itself was drafted a long time ago, when humanity was engulfed in regrets and addiction.
The rules are:
1. If we don't feel guilty when someone catches us, we won't be acceptable in society. Accept it or suffer the consequences.